Female Sues Setai Miami Beach Manager For Defamation

Alex Furrer, Setai Miami Beach and owners Joe, Ralph and Avi Nakash. (Miami Beach Chamber of Commerce, iStock, Setai)

Alex Furrer, Setai Miami Seashore and owners Joe, Ralph and Avi Nakash. (Miami Seaside Chamber of Commerce, iStock, Setai)

After finding caught having a sexual affair with a female resident, the typical manager of the Setai Miami Beach front mounted a vicious defamation and harassment campaign versus the lady to force her into shifting out of the luxury condominium-hotel, according to lately filed lawsuits.

Alex Furrer, who has headed the Setai’s hotel functions considering that 2015, admitted to partaking in the inappropriate relationship, such as sending sexually explicit messages from his function-issued cell phone and having sexual encounters with Sarah Lazow, according to court docket filings and his personal court deposition. A person of their trysts included a paid dominatrix and rope, courtroom documents clearly show.

Lazow submitted a defamation fit towards Furrer in Miami-Dade Circuit Courtroom on Aug. 8, searching for $1 million in damages. Among the other allegations, she promises Furrer engaged in functions prohibited in the Setai’s worker handbook. The Serious Offer attained a copy of the handbook and other documentation, including screenshots of worker WhatsApp group chats and screenshots of texts sent by Furrer, that appear to bolster Lazow’s personnel handbook claims. His alleged misconduct is the sort that would warrant disciplinary motion, like termination, according to the handbook.

Furrer did not respond to requests for comment. Lazow, her lawyers and Allan Reiss, the law firm for possession entity Setai Resort Acquisitions, declined comment.

Rather of firing Furrer, the principals of the Setai Miami Seashore “embarked on a sexist and illegal mission to go over up Alex Furrer’s despicable and unlawful conduct” and “they have adopted his ill-suggested path of concealment and manipulation,” according to a independent counterclaim Lazow submitted in opposition to the apartment-hotel’s possession entity on Aug.15.

The Nakash family members, founders of the Jordache Jeans manufacturer and proprietors of many substantial-profile South Beach properties this kind of as the Versace Mansion, purchased the Setai’s lodge factors, including two dining establishments and the Dempsey Vanderbilt Hotel at 2001 Collins Avenue, for approximately $90 million in 2014. Avi, Joe and Ralph Nakash also own eight residences in the Setai’s 164-device condominium at 101 20th Road, which has also been a favored hangout for the Kardashian family.

In an ongoing different lawsuit filed in March, Setai’s entrepreneurs are searching for to have Lazow completely banned from making use of the luxury resort’s facilities by alleging she is a disturbance to hotel attendees and staff members. She is leasing an upper-flooring condo from a personal operator. On July 20, Miami-Dade Circuit Choose Beatrice Butchko granted a short-term injunction barring Lazow from the two restaurants, but she is authorized to use the valet company and go to the gymnasium, the pool and the property’s beach front spot.

In a current courtroom filing, Setai attorney Reiss asserts his client’s case is about a assets owner’s legal rights to management access and use of its premises, and that it has nothing at all to do with the dispute involving Furrer and Lazow. The Aug. 13 doc, called a memorandum of regulation, accused Lazow of participating in perform “driven by a destructive quest for vengeance towards Furrer.”

In the defamation lawsuit, Lazow alleges Furrer and the Nakashes kicked her out on Jan. 12, 2020 and sued her to obtain an unpaid portion of her lodge invoice that they falsely claimed she refused to pay back. It was completed to protect up Furrer’s girlfriend assaulting Lazow after discovering out about the affair, as well as his “outrageous conduct he experienced been engaging in during his functioning hrs,” the grievance states.

The liaison commenced shortly following Lazow arrived at the Setai on Oct. 23, 2020, about eight months right after a preceding remain when she initially met Furrer, in accordance to the defamation grievance. Furrer, a 43-year-aged man who was 14 a long time older than Lazow when they satisfied, has a girlfriend he has been with considering that 2016 whilst still currently being married to his wife, in accordance to his April 13 deposition. He filed for divorce in August of previous calendar year, court docket records display.

During the initially 10 days of her 2nd stay, Furrer and Lazow frequently exchanged textual content messages that turned “more and extra flirtatious as time went on,” her lawsuit states. On Nov. 2, 2020, Furrer despatched texts stating that “I can’t afford to pay for to mess all-around,” the Setai’s “walls have eyes and ears,” the lawsuit states. The subsequent day, Furrer had his to start with sexual come upon with Lazow at the Setai’s Ocean Grill cafe.

About the up coming two months, Furrer and Lazow experienced intercourse on resort grounds through regular business hrs, routinely meeting in her place, Lazow’s lawsuit states. He also allegedly sent her pictures of his genitals. Their dominatrix date “was paid with a funds progress towards [Lazow’s] monthly bill – licensed by [Furrer],” according to the complaint.

The fling commenced slipping apart on Dec. 9, 2020 when Furrer allegedly falsely certain her that the Setai would carry out a total investigation into two housekeepers Lazow accused of stealing $7,500 in own home all through the training course of her keep, her lawsuit states. All around the exact time, Furrer desired Lazow to settle a resort invoice of more than $100,000, but she disputed about $27,000 in prices she promises associated taxes and credits the general manager had promised to waive, according to the complaint.

The affair at last blew up on Jan. 8, 2021 when Furrer’s girlfriend, Useful Nicole Castillo, who by then suspected her boyfriend was cheating on her, threw a drink at Lazow, the lawsuit states. Court docket documents also show Lazow acquired a momentary restraining get from Castillo for recurring violence.

E-mail from Lazow and 1 of her attorneys, connected to her complaint, present she attempted to fork out her monthly bill with the hotel’s accounting department, but acquired no responses. On Jan. 12, she was forcibly taken off from the Setai and the ownership entity sued her for the unpaid stability. Her lawsuit also observed that her credit history card was on file and that it had been made use of to pay a $14,000 cost on Nov. 14, 2020.

She paid out the $100,000 centered on assurances from a Setai consultant who spoke to Joe Nakash and explained that Nakash relayed, “when the bill is compensated, there will be peace,” according to the court submitting. She returned in February following leasing the privately owned unit she currently occupies, just after discovering out she was blackballed from a few other lodges in Miami Seaside.

In the course of his April 13 deposition, Furrer admitted to getting a “short affair” with Lazow, which includes the rendezvous with the dominatrix. He accused Lazow of sharing their intimate shots and texts with his girlfriend and four Setai residents, in accordance to the transcript.

“Ms. Lazow knew how to prolong this marriage from my will,” Furrer claimed. “She threatened that if I did not keep on the affair, she would develop chaos in my daily life. I obtained trapped for a number of weeks.”

However, Furrer admitted that he voluntarily went into Lazow’s suite on repeated situations to have sex with her. The Setai’s worker handbook prohibits staff, which include professionals, from viewing visitor rooms and household flooring even at the invitation of a guest or resident except if it is in the scope of their get the job done assignments. Unauthorized fraternization with guests and unauthorized presence in visitor rooms is a violation of the Setai’s specifications of carry out that can consequence in disciplinary action, like termination, the handbook states.

Workers are also barred from engaging in dishonest, immoral and indecent habits that publicly embarrasses the Setai discrimination from attendees and co-workers and applying Setai equipment to deliver and obtain sexually express and obscene responses and material.

Irrespective of his alleged misconduct, Furrer is even now on the position. According to Lazow’s criticism, he has “falsely and maliciously told other people at the lodge and other folks inside of the resort industry that [Lazow] is a predator, a drug addict, bipolar, is improperly around-recommended medicine and extorted [Furrer] into possessing sex with her to acquire a free of charge continue to be at the hotel.” The untrue promises have ruined Lazow’s standing and caused her terrific emotional damage, her lawsuit states.

Over the earlier 6 months, Furrer had Lazow’s Array Rover towed from the parking room assigned to her lease, refused her accessibility to the fitness center and employed private safety guards to carefully observe her around from the second she actions out of her unit, in accordance to her lawsuit.

Her criticism cites Setai worker WhatsApp chats that show workers being instructed to look the other way when they see Lazow and not to serve her or any of her guests. Staff have also been requested to refuse company to citizens found hanging out with Lazow, the lawsuit alleges.

Subsequent Judge Butchko’s ruling, Furrer sent an e-mail to other Setai supervisors on July 12, which was also connected to her lawsuit, with the subject heading: “Sarah Lazow, new procedures as of currently!” In the body of the e-mail he wrote that she is not authorized in any of the places to eat and bars, she is not permitted to have meals and beverage providers at the pool and seaside location and she is not allowed to obtain any spa products and services.

One particular of the courtroom reveals is an Aug. 11 declaration by former Ocean Grill cafe manager Eliecer Bendana, who attested that he was used at the hotel from March via July 29. In the course of that time, Bendana reported he gained emails from Furrer updating personnel on Lazow’s court situation and common limits he required enforced on her.

“I under no circumstances witnessed Ms. Lazow undertaking nearly anything disruptive or inappropriate, nor did I hear of any incidents that weren’t linked to her challenges with Alex Furrer,” Bendana explained. “I have in no way labored for an institution that pressured me to mistreat a consumer.”

On Aug. 8, Furrer attained a non permanent restraining purchase towards Lazow that bars her from coming in 500 ft of him. A hearing to make it lasting is scheduled for Aug. 25. In his petition, Furrer mentioned he was “sexually intimate” with Lazow and that she has sent him a lot more than 500 threatening and harassing texts for 8 months, most not too long ago on July 27. He alleged she threatened to distribute nude pics of him.

The petition features a 5-web page printout of dozens of WhatsApp messages she despatched him. A bulk have been despatched on Jan. 9, the working day immediately after Furrow’s girlfriend allegedly poured the drink on Lazow. The remainder had been despatched among Jan. 11 and March 4, the day Furrer allegedly blocked her variety, according to the printout.

A Setai worker who spoke on the condition of anonymity reported he noticed Furrer waiting around in the lobby for Lazow to appear down from her device and identified as the cops. Furrer was also inside 20 toes of Lazow when Miami Seaside police officers served her with the restraining purchase, the worker claimed. Cops have long gone to the Setai three moments this month in response to Lazow allegedly violating the restraining order. “He’s the just one who filed the restraining buy, so why is he on the lookout for her?” The employee said. “He’s making an attempt to wreck this person’s daily life.”

The staff said supervisors have relayed that anyone caught talking to Lazow could be terminated. “One of the professionals came up to me immediately after I reported ‘hi’ to her a single working day that I am not permitted to speak to her,” the staff said. “Multiple administrators have threatened that I could get fired. I’ve seen [Furrer] laughing with other professionals and staff about her like it is anything comical.”

The personnel extra that it is common understanding at the Setai that Furrer had an inappropriate partnership with Lazow. “Any other staff would have been fired,” the worker mentioned. “Somehow, he is not. It will make zero sense.”